December 2013 LG Column Q: My husband prefers to watch pornography than to have sex with me. What can I do to get him to notice me? A: Don’t wait passively. Watch with him and see what attracts him, perhaps certain kinds of lingerie or role-playing that are OK with you. Be imaginative. However, addiction… Read more »
Dr. Gayle Kimball has been writing for the Lotus Guide since the very first issue answering some tough questions along the way for Lotus Guide readers.
Dr. Gayle Kimball loves to hear from the community with their questions on everything from marriage, relationships, to global issues.
I live alone and my family is so caught up in their stuff that they haven’t a second thought for me, let alone any help. I feel really devoid of help in my home life.
Just because someone is an adult doesn’t mean he or she is emotionally mature. Expecting him to be fair leads to disappointment and more resentment, as you’re dealing with someone who is about 13 right now.
My husband gambled all our savings playing in Pachinko parlors after his retirement from teaching. He drinks and doesn’t listen to me.
I’m seeing an attraction vs. pull-away between you two. I think your childhood issues are surfacing now with some discomfort.
He is a very strong leader, he loves the ocean, he’s very mechanical and has a scientist’s mind, interested in knowing how things work.
Life is too short to waste any time. Write a list of what youâ??d like to do before you die, including travel, new skills, good deeds and service to others, and fun.
Q: Iâ??m a middle-aged divorced guy who realized I wasnâ??t in love with my wives. How can I change this pattern? The women Iâ??m dating now arenâ??t going to be compatible in the long run either.